mog
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I know that it has been a long time since I have posted and I am sorry that I have not kept you all informed. I am falling apart. difficult child is home and up and down. Legally he is staying out of trouble--Thank God. He is really having some struggles. His girlfriend told him that they had a break up brecause she was moving out of state--then she came into his work and had to admit that they had moved but were still in the area. He was really hurt. Her mom is the one that difficult child was convinced was a better "mom" to him than I am, not to mention the girlfriend thing. husband is being such a jerk to difficult child. difficult child needs to learn how to drive but husband won't let him drive "our" vehicles until he has a license. I told difficult child that I thought that it was because he needs to wear glasses but he broke them soooo finally got him to go get glasses and I offered to get him contacts but told him that I would only buy the first pair. So now they are all in and husband still won't teach him, to make things worse husband complains about every little thing that difficult child does. If he needs a ride to work -he gives difficult child an attitude--if he needs to be picked up form somewhere- difficult child gives him an attitude. I am now back to work --Thank you God--and husband is at home because of his disablility so I get angry because he is sooooo willing to go and take everybody else anywhere they need to go and difficult child is TRYING to get it together but getting left out in the rain--literally!
Plus I am so emotional because difficult child should be graduating this year but because the system screwed him and he decide to get his ged instead he isn't. What makes it worse is that three nephews-one cousin- and all of difficult child's friends are and we keep getting this invitaions and I am so heartbroken and crying.
difficult child was suppose to have orientation for his new job today so he got up early to ride down the hill with me to be at work at 830 but his thing wasn't until 10:30 so he walked from my work to where he was going but when he got there they told him it was postphoned til Friday and when he call husband for a ride home-difficult child told him that he wasn't planning on going down the hill for at least an hour and half and that he was going to have to walk to meet him to the place that he was going to be--I am hurt and angry. What do I do??? I Love my husband but I also Love my difficult child and I am tired of having to make a choice between them
Plus I am so emotional because difficult child should be graduating this year but because the system screwed him and he decide to get his ged instead he isn't. What makes it worse is that three nephews-one cousin- and all of difficult child's friends are and we keep getting this invitaions and I am so heartbroken and crying.
difficult child was suppose to have orientation for his new job today so he got up early to ride down the hill with me to be at work at 830 but his thing wasn't until 10:30 so he walked from my work to where he was going but when he got there they told him it was postphoned til Friday and when he call husband for a ride home-difficult child told him that he wasn't planning on going down the hill for at least an hour and half and that he was going to have to walk to meet him to the place that he was going to be--I am hurt and angry. What do I do??? I Love my husband but I also Love my difficult child and I am tired of having to make a choice between them