My 18yr difficult child recently married a boy she had just met and fell pregnant to. She met him in May, fell pregnant straight away and then decided to get married last month. Of course we were not to happy about the whole situation but were supportive. Well it turns out her husband is 17yrs old and has been incarcerated for 4yrs for being a Sex Offender (turns 18yr in Nov) and is very immature. he has dropped out of school (11th grade) and wont look for a job. my difficult child is living with him and his parents. His parents who are low income earners support their sons choices 100%. my new son-inlaw is very immature, so is my difficult child for that matter. Their baby is Due Fev 08. I dont know what to buy my difficult child and her hubby for xmas. i dont want to waste allot of money since they are the type to always beg for things instead of going to work and earning them. they believe the world owes them everything. i expect this marriage wont last. i want to purchase something that has meaning, so i can continue on the tradition with my other kids when they get married for eg: my motherinlaw sends each of her kids an approx $50 hallmark xmas tree ornament that lights up, sings etc. we get a new one and each represents how many yrs we were married. we do like the ornaments but they are not very personal. any ideas for a xmas gift for them both and a b/day gift for my new soninlaw?