Someone awhile back said something about how they only bring the "bad" things about their difficult child here. Some people share the good and the bad but I thought it might be fun, if not interesting, if people would share what they think is GOOD about their difficult child's. What are their strengths? What are their good qualities? What do they have going for them? difficult child 1 is very inquisitive. He likes to figure out how things work or why things do what they do. He's actually pretty good at it. That is where he has excellent analytical, problem-solving skills. difficult child 2 is very compassionate. He cares a great deal about others and will go out of his way to make others happy.