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What do you do when your wife/husband HATES your difficult child?
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 8798" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Chuck</p><p></p><p>Welcome to the Board.</p><p></p><p>It helps alot if you could give some background information on your difficult child. Doesn't have to be tons, but like age, diagnosis, is difficult child in treatment or on medications, some of the behaviors you're dealing with stuff like that. Gives us a better picture of your situation and what you're dealing with.</p><p></p><p>But I can put an answer to your question somewhat. My husband seemed to hate my difficult child T for pretty much most of his life. He was always angry at T, always short tempered and had no patience what so ever with T. Nothing I did seemed to help. And most of the time T wasn't doing anything intentional to husband or anyone else. He was just being a difficult child. But boy could he drive you to the edge and back. :wildone: husband used to say that T only did the things he did just to drive husband crazy.</p><p></p><p>As we went thru the diagnosis process, treatment process, I forced husband to always come with me to every appointment. As we began to get correct dxes, and docs who cared and explained those dxes, husband began to see more and more that most of T's behavior was not deliberate. Sadly though, my husband didn't begin to come around until T was about 14. His feelings and behavior toward T have drastically improved, but their relationship will never be close.</p><p></p><p>Understanding the disorders was the key for my husband when it came to difficult child T, then by the time N got her dxes he took it in stride.</p><p></p><p>It is so very hard when both parents aren't on the same page.</p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 8798, member: 84"] Chuck Welcome to the Board. It helps alot if you could give some background information on your difficult child. Doesn't have to be tons, but like age, diagnosis, is difficult child in treatment or on medications, some of the behaviors you're dealing with stuff like that. Gives us a better picture of your situation and what you're dealing with. But I can put an answer to your question somewhat. My husband seemed to hate my difficult child T for pretty much most of his life. He was always angry at T, always short tempered and had no patience what so ever with T. Nothing I did seemed to help. And most of the time T wasn't doing anything intentional to husband or anyone else. He was just being a difficult child. But boy could he drive you to the edge and back. [img]:wildone:[/img] husband used to say that T only did the things he did just to drive husband crazy. As we went thru the diagnosis process, treatment process, I forced husband to always come with me to every appointment. As we began to get correct dxes, and docs who cared and explained those dxes, husband began to see more and more that most of T's behavior was not deliberate. Sadly though, my husband didn't begin to come around until T was about 14. His feelings and behavior toward T have drastically improved, but their relationship will never be close. Understanding the disorders was the key for my husband when it came to difficult child T, then by the time N got her dxes he took it in stride. It is so very hard when both parents aren't on the same page. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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