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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 694312" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hi New,</p><p></p><p>A wise one on this forum told me years ago that my son would <em>find a way to let me know when and if he has changed. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Those words have helped husband and me immensely. First, because it is obviously the common.sense.truth. And also, because our son has "reached out to us" more than once to let us know he has changed in his feelings toward us. And, in a few days time, <strong>every single time</strong>, it is evident, he has not.</p><p></p><p>It sounds right to me that Blossom wants to set things right and her heart is in the right place<em>. </em>This is admirable on her part. Yet, you have the history and experience to proceed with caution.</p><p></p><p>My advice for your peace and well-being is to sit tight. Anything you do to reach out to Rain will do nothing to help her if she is not ready. It could, quite probably, hurt you.</p><p></p><p>And, Rain will find a way to let you know if she is ready.</p><p></p><p>My thoughts. My Difficult Child is 35.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 694312, member: 17635"] Hi New, A wise one on this forum told me years ago that my son would [I]find a way to let me know when and if he has changed. [/I] Those words have helped husband and me immensely. First, because it is obviously the common.sense.truth. And also, because our son has "reached out to us" more than once to let us know he has changed in his feelings toward us. And, in a few days time, [B]every single time[/B], it is evident, he has not. It sounds right to me that Blossom wants to set things right and her heart is in the right place[I]. [/I]This is admirable on her part. Yet, you have the history and experience to proceed with caution. My advice for your peace and well-being is to sit tight. Anything you do to reach out to Rain will do nothing to help her if she is not ready. It could, quite probably, hurt you. And, Rain will find a way to let you know if she is ready. My thoughts. My Difficult Child is 35. Hugs, SS [/QUOTE]
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