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<blockquote data-quote="Sister's Keeper" data-source="post: 694387" data-attributes="member: 20051"><p>My opinion only.</p><p></p><p>I think right now that you are too emotionally fragile and vulnerable, and understandably so, to risk your heart.</p><p></p><p>You need time to grieve, to heal, so that if you do want to attempt a reconciliation of any sort you are able to withstand the emotional pain if it does not work out.</p><p></p><p>You just had a HUGE loss in your life and it has left a HUGE empty space. You may, subconsciously, attempt to fill that void with your lost child. It may end up creating an enabling situation for her and a hurtful situation for you, that you aren't ready to withstand.</p><p></p><p>It's not fair to guilt you by telling you what your husband would want. What your husband would want was for you to be happy and at peace.</p><p></p><p>Follow your heart. Grieve in your own way and in your own time. It's a process. When you are ready, if you ever are, you will know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sister's Keeper, post: 694387, member: 20051"] My opinion only. I think right now that you are too emotionally fragile and vulnerable, and understandably so, to risk your heart. You need time to grieve, to heal, so that if you do want to attempt a reconciliation of any sort you are able to withstand the emotional pain if it does not work out. You just had a HUGE loss in your life and it has left a HUGE empty space. You may, subconsciously, attempt to fill that void with your lost child. It may end up creating an enabling situation for her and a hurtful situation for you, that you aren't ready to withstand. It's not fair to guilt you by telling you what your husband would want. What your husband would want was for you to be happy and at peace. Follow your heart. Grieve in your own way and in your own time. It's a process. When you are ready, if you ever are, you will know. [/QUOTE]
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