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What have i done so wrong to make my adult son dislike me so much? Read more: h
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 636646" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Solost, welcome. I've moved your posts to your own thread so you can get more support.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you are going through this with your son. This is a heartbreak of epic proportions for all of us. </p><p></p><p>Please tell us a little more about your situation. It will help us to offer you help to understand where you are.</p><p></p><p>I hope you are receiving some kind of support for YOU. That is crucial. With agoraphobia and anxiety, the situation with your son will certainly amplify the fears you already have. </p><p></p><p>You wouldn't be bringing up anything for anyone, that is why we are here, to respond to you, to respond to anyone who wants a response and to get support ourselves. You didn't do anything wrong.</p><p></p><p>Read the article at the bottom of my post here on detachment. Another resource is a book called Codependent no more by Melodie Beattie. We have to educate ourselves and we have to change ourselves in order to cope with what is happening or has happened with our kids. The likelihood is that they won't change, so in order for us to have a life of our own with peace of mind and joy, we must make the changes necessary within ourselves. We usually need help to do that. Doing that will likely greatly assist with your anxiety levels as well. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad you're here, you're not alone. Keep posting, it helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 636646, member: 13542"] Solost, welcome. I've moved your posts to your own thread so you can get more support. I'm sorry you are going through this with your son. This is a heartbreak of epic proportions for all of us. Please tell us a little more about your situation. It will help us to offer you help to understand where you are. I hope you are receiving some kind of support for YOU. That is crucial. With agoraphobia and anxiety, the situation with your son will certainly amplify the fears you already have. You wouldn't be bringing up anything for anyone, that is why we are here, to respond to you, to respond to anyone who wants a response and to get support ourselves. You didn't do anything wrong. Read the article at the bottom of my post here on detachment. Another resource is a book called Codependent no more by Melodie Beattie. We have to educate ourselves and we have to change ourselves in order to cope with what is happening or has happened with our kids. The likelihood is that they won't change, so in order for us to have a life of our own with peace of mind and joy, we must make the changes necessary within ourselves. We usually need help to do that. Doing that will likely greatly assist with your anxiety levels as well. I'm glad you're here, you're not alone. Keep posting, it helps. [/QUOTE]
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