Working his way across the family? We got a call today from one of Jabber's sisters, the one we were maddest at...one of the ones who waylaid us at the family reunion and then said she would take him his stuff and refused...long story if you don't remember. http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/family-reunion-from-hell.60654/#axzz3mEjg8nhO Anyway, he had re-friended her on Facebook and asked her (or at least hinted until she got it) if she would come get him. She is planning on letting him, and perhaps his girlfriend, to come live with her. She wanted to know...I'm not sure what. I guess if he'd steal from her; if he would follow the rules. Well duh, of course he won't. We didn't really know what to say. We told her, it was totally her choice and not to do it for us. He can't come home. I told her, "He's my only child, and I won't help him because none of the help we've given has ever changed things." We told her to put the rules in writing and if he messes up, tell him to get the hell out and not feel bad about it. You'd think, that after being truly homeless, after having no money, after having no food, that he'd be grateful enough to do what's necessary to find work and behave. Not holding our breaths.