I did a dumb thing. My difficult child called and drove me crazy saying he needed $10.00 to have a place to live! . So I gave him $10.00 not to be used for that but of course after I gave it - I kicked myself. This situation is just not getting better. I did go away for the weekend with my husband and had a great time. Turned my cell phone off and everything. I am reading more literature about co-dependency. I want to do something so someone will know what he is up to but need to keep hands off. I just wonder what to do next. Actually I dont think it is my responsiblity! he has an appointment. at Voc Rehab this Thursdday at 10:00 in the morning. I would have to take off school to take him to it. He made the appointment. so I think it is his responsiblity. However I really think he needs to go and he said he wanted to - so I guess he will figure out how to get there. But what do you do when you think something should be getting better? I think maybe we need to take a restraining order out - or not let him get into the car.