Common issue? I don't know...can't imagine. Or I should say "couldn't" until this morning. GFG17 showed up, startled me, and said he wanted to get some of his things. Still refused to give me his address, or say where he's staying. Wandered around the house, took the keys to his former car and went poking around in there. Asked for money. Of course. Called husband and badgered him about money/stuff from his car/etc. Fortunately, I was on the phone with my daughter when difficult child arrived, then his DJO called, and husband - who ended up coming home from work. difficult child was only here about 90 minutes - starting to be a pattern - and finally left. But not before telling husband that he hopes he dies from cancer before the hearing next week, and that he wished I'd die too.