DC2, daughter, works, owns her car, pays all costs associated with car. Not paying rent, yet, as we don't charge until they graduate from University. Due to graduate May. Told her rent payments will start May 1. She is on antidepressants and antihistamines for anxiety. She came clean a few months back that she has been smoking pot since first semester away at school, Aug 2018. We have a rule no drugs or paraphernalia or alcohol on our property. Issue 1:Yesterday a package arrived for her and it was just the product in the manufacturer's box with a label on it . It was a safe disguised as a book. She put it in car. She never brings her purse in the house. Said it's for convenience. Today another package arrived and it contained a pipe and weed grinder. It's pretty clear that she is using in her car after work and has a stash in her car which is parked ON MY PROPERTY. Do I throw her out for having drugs on my property and paraphernalia in my house in the middle of a pandemic? Issue 2: She was not observing social distancing. When she came home from work (essential job) and I asked her to wash hands , I would get eye roll. Husband is very close to high risk age and she said we should all be ok here except for 1 person and oh well. When I pointed out that this is hurtful, she said it was a joke. Was still going to friends houses all the time even telling me one time: "I am going to get high tonight and sleep at my friend's house since I can't come home drunk or stoned". When State orders for stay home regulations came down, she still went to friends house. Husband told her he was not ok with this that he has to protect himself and his family and she is only to go to work and home. That he would call her work to verify. She got very upset and came to me to talk about it. I directed her back to her Dad but said I would listen and validate feelings and hold space for her if she needed to vent. In this conversation she said she did not feel comfortable here , hated it here , was in an abusive situation here (?), and her boss said they would not verify whether she was at work or not for the safety of employees. I told her to just give me a copy of her schedule then (which she since has) and asked her why she was here if it was so awful. And I get the sob story about her credit card bill , that she spent too much bla bla bla. She said she is depressed. I asked about her medications for depression and she says "you don't understand, they don't help, they only take the edge off so I am not suicidal". Don't know what to do here. It is clear she has to move out, but she has not saved money and how do I set a deadline date when there is a pandemic?