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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 760655" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Trust me. He could use that against you in court if you take your son. I mean, court doesn't make.much sense...it is hard to explain and custody changes often. You will get further if you sopena (sic) a medical person who diagnosed your husband as alcoholic. Or show court records. Judges do NOT just take the words of the ex. Don't even say narcissist as that is not diagnosed either. Let your LAWYER talk! He or she.knows what to say. You and your lawyer plan the strategy. Do not try to do it alone. Do not think you will be believed without a lawyer. Your ex could lie and be believed. You never know. You need a rock star on your side. </p><p></p><p>Look, again I'm not a lawyer. I have heard these custody nightmares for years and don't want you unprepared, like my sister's were. You will likely get a brand new judge and not the one who gave you custody when your son was just little. The Judges do not all think a like nor do what the other Judge did. Or even believe you, sadly.</p><p></p><p>Get a lawyer. Please. Get a good one. They are our best voices in a courtroom.</p><p></p><p>I care and want the best outcome for your son. And hope it ends easily. But if you think ex will fight, be ready. Don't give him the edge. </p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 760655, member: 23706"] Trust me. He could use that against you in court if you take your son. I mean, court doesn't make.much sense...it is hard to explain and custody changes often. You will get further if you sopena (sic) a medical person who diagnosed your husband as alcoholic. Or show court records. Judges do NOT just take the words of the ex. Don't even say narcissist as that is not diagnosed either. Let your LAWYER talk! He or she.knows what to say. You and your lawyer plan the strategy. Do not try to do it alone. Do not think you will be believed without a lawyer. Your ex could lie and be believed. You never know. You need a rock star on your side. Look, again I'm not a lawyer. I have heard these custody nightmares for years and don't want you unprepared, like my sister's were. You will likely get a brand new judge and not the one who gave you custody when your son was just little. The Judges do not all think a like nor do what the other Judge did. Or even believe you, sadly. Get a lawyer. Please. Get a good one. They are our best voices in a courtroom. I care and want the best outcome for your son. And hope it ends easily. But if you think ex will fight, be ready. Don't give him the edge. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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