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<blockquote data-quote="Nandina" data-source="post: 760659" data-attributes="member: 23742"><p>Confused, please take some of the good advice you are being offered here. You could at least speak to a lawyer who specializes in custodial cases. Often a lawyer will hear your problem, quote you their cost, and let you know if they can help you before you are charged for anything. Are you able to retain a lawyer if one becomes necessary?</p><p></p><p>The fact that you have legal custody and your husband refuses to return your son means he is breaking the law, period. I can’t think of any judge who would approve of that behavior. But your agreement was for 3 months, right? He needs to be returned at the end of the three months and if not, you take legal action. And you don’t know if that 3 month agreement is even legally binding. So, find out.</p><p></p><p>Of course, if your son is unsafe in the meantime, you can’t wait and again, get an attorney on your side. Obviously, you need to determine whether or not your son is telling the truth. </p><p></p><p>The custody arrangement, if it comes to a change is a separate issue, in my opinion. But by then, assuming you have hired an attorney, you will have support and presumably, good advice.</p><p></p><p>Please don’t keep writing the ending before you’ve even attempted to get some legal advice. I think once you speak to a professional about this you will feel better. Will you be able to do that? If you can’t afford a lawyer, see if there is a legal aid organization in your city. They provide free or reduced cost services.</p><p></p><p>Let us know what you decide to do. But it ain’t over yet! <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nandina, post: 760659, member: 23742"] Confused, please take some of the good advice you are being offered here. You could at least speak to a lawyer who specializes in custodial cases. Often a lawyer will hear your problem, quote you their cost, and let you know if they can help you before you are charged for anything. Are you able to retain a lawyer if one becomes necessary? The fact that you have legal custody and your husband refuses to return your son means he is breaking the law, period. I can’t think of any judge who would approve of that behavior. But your agreement was for 3 months, right? He needs to be returned at the end of the three months and if not, you take legal action. And you don’t know if that 3 month agreement is even legally binding. So, find out. Of course, if your son is unsafe in the meantime, you can’t wait and again, get an attorney on your side. Obviously, you need to determine whether or not your son is telling the truth. The custody arrangement, if it comes to a change is a separate issue, in my opinion. But by then, assuming you have hired an attorney, you will have support and presumably, good advice. Please don’t keep writing the ending before you’ve even attempted to get some legal advice. I think once you speak to a professional about this you will feel better. Will you be able to do that? If you can’t afford a lawyer, see if there is a legal aid organization in your city. They provide free or reduced cost services. Let us know what you decide to do. But it ain’t over yet! ❤️ [/QUOTE]
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