I am just at about the end if my rope all though my boys have been doing much better with me, I'm at a stand still . I started therapy and since I have been going I have been doing cbt. Last week she said that my 2 precious boys(sarcasm)need to do their own everything . I tried my hardest , I didn't not blink first but on Saturday I was degraded by my husband every single reaction I told her II woukd get. I don't work (we own our own business but no I do not work there unless needed) . It is at the point when I finally speak calmly I'm degraded to the point where I can't even stand to be in same room. When the boys talk to me the way he does I bite my tongue , I spend more time in my room then not . I sleep in guest bedroom. Todsy is our anniversary and I get text this am happy anniversary love you! Seriously ????? I have nothing to say back. It's like he tries his hardest to point out to our kids that I am crazy and now again every step I have made with the boys we are right back to where we started. I wonder how to get my power bsck when it is power struggle with my husband . I guess my therapist is not getting just how bad it is. To her I can just stop going things which I have but once their dad speaks try go right bsck to being Difficult Child I just don't know what to do '