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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 650098" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi, Shari. </p><p></p><p>I would fire the therapist and get another one. His advice that you just take it calmly is degrading to you. </p><p></p><p>I agree it would be good if you could leave for a while, if not for a long time. Actually, I think HE should leave, but you know he won't. </p><p></p><p>This is abuse and if I recall your husband is encouraging your sons to do it and everyone is beating up on you, so to speak.</p><p></p><p>If you want to leave, contact an attorney to make sure you still retain what is rightfully yours, then let them deal with life on their own. Hub is a sadist. What a sick text on your anniversary. He knows what he is doing and has done. I would not text him back.</p><p></p><p>Whatever you decide to do, make it about YOUR best interests now. I feel so badly for you. You have put up with this crapola long enough and it's time to be good to yourself and let the dogs lay with one another. Write down a list of conditions on coming back, once hubby calls with tears in his voice saying he will change. Stick to it. You deserve to be treated well. And your therapist should be telling you this. If he isn't, right, he isn't getting it. Or she.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 650098, member: 1550"] Hi, Shari. I would fire the therapist and get another one. His advice that you just take it calmly is degrading to you. I agree it would be good if you could leave for a while, if not for a long time. Actually, I think HE should leave, but you know he won't. This is abuse and if I recall your husband is encouraging your sons to do it and everyone is beating up on you, so to speak. If you want to leave, contact an attorney to make sure you still retain what is rightfully yours, then let them deal with life on their own. Hub is a sadist. What a sick text on your anniversary. He knows what he is doing and has done. I would not text him back. Whatever you decide to do, make it about YOUR best interests now. I feel so badly for you. You have put up with this crapola long enough and it's time to be good to yourself and let the dogs lay with one another. Write down a list of conditions on coming back, once hubby calls with tears in his voice saying he will change. Stick to it. You deserve to be treated well. And your therapist should be telling you this. If he isn't, right, he isn't getting it. Or she. [/QUOTE]
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