Argh!! We just found out (yes, easy child/difficult child didn't know if she was graduating and so we didn't know the date) that easy child/difficult child's graduation night from high school is the same night as difficult child's 8th grade graduation celebration. Obviously a high school graduation is super important. To difficult child so is the 8th graduation. easy child/difficult child will be very hurt if we are both not at the graduation. difficult child will be very hurt if at least one of us isn't there. Sigh.... Any ideas?