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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 705197" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I'm sorry you are going through this TL. I don't think I could allow him to live like that in my home indefinitely without seeing some progress or initiative on his end. The definition of insanity is doing same thing over and over yet expecting a different outcome. Why should he do anything when he is living in your home and allowed to do whatever he wants. </p><p></p><p>He is not going to make a move to change his life; therefore you will have to make a move to change your life with him in your home. You have a right to have peace in your own home but fear of his depression and kicking him out is keeping you all in a permanent phase of limbo. Understandable.</p><p></p><p>I would try and find another place for him to live, with a time limit for him to move. Give him information for places to get help. It's his choice as an adult to seek help and change his life or not and continue to live the way he does. Living there with you will be like ground hog day, where every day you wake up is a repeat of the previous day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 705197, member: 19951"] I'm sorry you are going through this TL. I don't think I could allow him to live like that in my home indefinitely without seeing some progress or initiative on his end. The definition of insanity is doing same thing over and over yet expecting a different outcome. Why should he do anything when he is living in your home and allowed to do whatever he wants. He is not going to make a move to change his life; therefore you will have to make a move to change your life with him in your home. You have a right to have peace in your own home but fear of his depression and kicking him out is keeping you all in a permanent phase of limbo. Understandable. I would try and find another place for him to live, with a time limit for him to move. Give him information for places to get help. It's his choice as an adult to seek help and change his life or not and continue to live the way he does. Living there with you will be like ground hog day, where every day you wake up is a repeat of the previous day. [/QUOTE]
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