So,I was only just saying it has been a month with no contact and whilst desperately sad, I kind of feel better. I an no longer feel sad by social media posts and I no longer have the drama. Tonight, my daughter starts asking questions about whether I knew where my son was staying. In the end I ask why and she says that a dealer has found her on social media and contacted her about money my son owes. I want to flip!!! 14 years old! WHAT??! How dare they contact her! In that very moment I hate him...but I love him. What are these feelings? I tell her she does not reply to them. Too late. She shows me the conversation between them. This guy is a total *****@&*(*&^! Its like he is from gangster land. Writings so bad I can hardly decipher what he is saying. Basically, my son owes money and they are out for him tonight. My lovely daughter tries to bide him time, defend him but equally puts them straight in that why do they keep giving him stuff when he never pays!! I feel like I'm watching a movie. I text my sons girlfriend and tell her to tell him that if my daughter receives one more text from one of his drug dealer 'mates' I will go to the police. She asks who has contacted my daughter as my son wants to know. I do not reply. I know he will be demented as he loves his sister. Now Im worried this will have made things worse and he will be on the rampage tonight looking for trouble. My daughter ta;ks to the dealer about whether they are going to beat my son up and the dealer (in his language) was suggested that just beating him up is kids play and this is more serious now. What for £300!! I simply can't cope with this!! What is wrong with him (my son) .......is he actually STUPID!!!!!