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When is it ok to walk away?
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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 724625" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>There is so much heart ah e for us. It is up to each of us what we do and how we manage with our Difficult Child. We have been involved in the lies and the outright theft of our money and yes Pay Day loans.</p><p></p><p>We had our son arrested and put in jail for stealing from our bank accounts. He is to go to rehab or go to jail. We give him no money and will pay none of his debt and he is only 18. He is lining with us temporarily until his rehab bed becomes available and many days are not so pleasant.</p><p></p><p>One piece of advise I will give you is Love is unconditional, boundaries and expectations are not. The more you do for him the more you will enable this irresponsible behaviour. </p><p></p><p>Don’t let FOG get confused for Love Fear Obligation and Guilt be confused for love and good boudaries. Sometimes Love and doing what is right is painful. </p><p></p><p>Big hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 724625, member: 21895"] There is so much heart ah e for us. It is up to each of us what we do and how we manage with our Difficult Child. We have been involved in the lies and the outright theft of our money and yes Pay Day loans. We had our son arrested and put in jail for stealing from our bank accounts. He is to go to rehab or go to jail. We give him no money and will pay none of his debt and he is only 18. He is lining with us temporarily until his rehab bed becomes available and many days are not so pleasant. One piece of advise I will give you is Love is unconditional, boundaries and expectations are not. The more you do for him the more you will enable this irresponsible behaviour. Don’t let FOG get confused for Love Fear Obligation and Guilt be confused for love and good boudaries. Sometimes Love and doing what is right is painful. Big hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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