psychiatrist made this statement yesterday, and it has really got me thinking. I think some of it is true, to some extent. I know when husband's BiPolar (BP) or anxiety is acting up, it seems that after husband calms down difficult child will go out of control. I never thought of them as linked. I try to do things to ensure that I am "doing better", but man is it hard to find time. This site helps me immensely. Just thought this might start a good discussion with good suggestions. What do you think of the above statement and what do you do to "do better"?