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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 652334" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>Your story mirrors mine so much! My family of origin are crazy immigrants who came to England with nothing. My Dad is a selfish self centred flamboyant musician whom I accept with all his faults my kids adore him and he them. He was neve there for my sister and I though. My Mum is actually sectioned in a mental hospital sadly and doesn't want anything to do with me. She was a stunning woman with a cutting sense of humour coupled with physical & emotional abusive to us. My sister craves attention even now in her late 50's always attaining qualifications. She's funny, eccentric yet cold and selfish. My kids are all witty, very physically attractive. So they have a lot of hangers on. They are a wild bunch who have all done well and fluctuate between being really kind or really cruel. I too realise I can be extreme as when I love someone I love them ALOT yet I have a horrible temper and can say nasty things. But I only explode one or twice a year at the most and only after I take too much. I love them all so much and when it works as it did last year on holiday it was magical! I want to fix everything but now know it's impossible. Slowly I will accept. I will not antagonise my Borderline (BPD) daughter as I will lose my Grand daughter you are so right. I'm a persistent kind of person who doesn't like giving up. It is me who needs to change. X</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 652334, member: 18827"] Your story mirrors mine so much! My family of origin are crazy immigrants who came to England with nothing. My Dad is a selfish self centred flamboyant musician whom I accept with all his faults my kids adore him and he them. He was neve there for my sister and I though. My Mum is actually sectioned in a mental hospital sadly and doesn't want anything to do with me. She was a stunning woman with a cutting sense of humour coupled with physical & emotional abusive to us. My sister craves attention even now in her late 50's always attaining qualifications. She's funny, eccentric yet cold and selfish. My kids are all witty, very physically attractive. So they have a lot of hangers on. They are a wild bunch who have all done well and fluctuate between being really kind or really cruel. I too realise I can be extreme as when I love someone I love them ALOT yet I have a horrible temper and can say nasty things. But I only explode one or twice a year at the most and only after I take too much. I love them all so much and when it works as it did last year on holiday it was magical! I want to fix everything but now know it's impossible. Slowly I will accept. I will not antagonise my Borderline (BPD) daughter as I will lose my Grand daughter you are so right. I'm a persistent kind of person who doesn't like giving up. It is me who needs to change. X [/QUOTE]
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