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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 75384" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>BW, you are right in many ways. husband's WoW schedule is about 3-5 hours a day on weekdays after work and dinner, and 12 - 16 hours a day on weekends. Seven days a week.</p><p></p><p>I <em>used to</em> think that I could live with setting a limit on it. <em>I</em> still could live with that. The problem is, he couldn't live with it. And it's been going on since our very first date. Which he cut short to go play D&D with his friends. I think either he needs to give up the gaming completely because he can't control it, or I need to give up the dream of him being anything more than a man who lives in my house.</p><p></p><p>I do an awful lot of things on my own, really. Or with L, or with other friends. But I <em>miss</em> him. I miss feeling valued by him. He could do a jig that I'm not bugging him to do those things with me and sees it as 'great' that I'm finding something to do. To an extent, I <em>get</em> that, if it were the normal amount of wife finding something to do on my own. But wife only gets to do anything if she does it by herself and he's glad he doesn't have to participate? That's not what I want.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 75384, member: 99"] BW, you are right in many ways. husband's WoW schedule is about 3-5 hours a day on weekdays after work and dinner, and 12 - 16 hours a day on weekends. Seven days a week. I [i]used to[/i] think that I could live with setting a limit on it. [i]I[/i] still could live with that. The problem is, he couldn't live with it. And it's been going on since our very first date. Which he cut short to go play D&D with his friends. I think either he needs to give up the gaming completely because he can't control it, or I need to give up the dream of him being anything more than a man who lives in my house. I do an awful lot of things on my own, really. Or with L, or with other friends. But I [i]miss[/i] him. I miss feeling valued by him. He could do a jig that I'm not bugging him to do those things with me and sees it as 'great' that I'm finding something to do. To an extent, I [i]get[/i] that, if it were the normal amount of wife finding something to do on my own. But wife only gets to do anything if she does it by herself and he's glad he doesn't have to participate? That's not what I want. [/QUOTE]
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