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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 75465" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>My thoughts seem to be a combination of what has already been said.</p><p></p><p>Thought:</p><p></p><p>#1. Your husband was like this when you met/married him. I think it's somewhat unreasonable for you to expect him to change since we all know the only person we have control over and can change is ourselves...and he is obviously perfectly happy with himself the way he is even it's annoying. lol </p><p></p><p>#2. That said, this really hits home with me because when our marriage was breaking down my now exdh wouldn't do things I asked because he was passive-aggressive. Your husband is exhibiting classic behaviors of p/a, too.</p><p></p><p>#3. I was also going to suggest that you do some of these projects yourself but you've answered that already...</p><p></p><p>#4. And then I was going to suggest that you hire a "rent-a-husband" to do the chores that your husband won't. That way both of you are happy. And if husband doesn't like spending the money, then he can get off his duff and do them. :angel:</p><p></p><p>Good luck, Witz.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 75465, member: 29"] My thoughts seem to be a combination of what has already been said. Thought: #1. Your husband was like this when you met/married him. I think it's somewhat unreasonable for you to expect him to change since we all know the only person we have control over and can change is ourselves...and he is obviously perfectly happy with himself the way he is even it's annoying. lol #2. That said, this really hits home with me because when our marriage was breaking down my now exdh wouldn't do things I asked because he was passive-aggressive. Your husband is exhibiting classic behaviors of p/a, too. #3. I was also going to suggest that you do some of these projects yourself but you've answered that already... #4. And then I was going to suggest that you hire a "rent-a-husband" to do the chores that your husband won't. That way both of you are happy. And if husband doesn't like spending the money, then he can get off his duff and do them. [img]:angel:[/img] Good luck, Witz. Suz [/QUOTE]
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