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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 640883" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>yes, it is. And, difficult child has been awful toward us (and others who do not jump when he tells them to) for a long time. RE mentioned how husband and I took to detachment so quickly; well, no credit to us. It is just that we had been through this so long. We knew in our hearts things would never get better. This forum helped us know it was okay to walk away, to get off the merry-go-round of difficult child pain. </p><p></p><p>difficult child could fake nice for a few hours or days, but the ugliness always returned.</p><p></p><p><strong>This is not really a surprise. So, why am i taken back?</strong></p><p></p><p>You think you are past it and then a hateful text arrives because his dad asks about him and husband and I are shaking our heads and sad. Although, Much, much, much, much stronger than when I found this forum last winter.</p><p></p><p>Thanks so much for helping me today. I have forwarded many of your responses (if not all) to husband and he said, "These are so helpful." And, they are. So supportive, so loving, so kind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 640883, member: 17635"] yes, it is. And, difficult child has been awful toward us (and others who do not jump when he tells them to) for a long time. RE mentioned how husband and I took to detachment so quickly; well, no credit to us. It is just that we had been through this so long. We knew in our hearts things would never get better. This forum helped us know it was okay to walk away, to get off the merry-go-round of difficult child pain. difficult child could fake nice for a few hours or days, but the ugliness always returned. [B]This is not really a surprise. So, why am i taken back?[/B] You think you are past it and then a hateful text arrives because his dad asks about him and husband and I are shaking our heads and sad. Although, Much, much, much, much stronger than when I found this forum last winter. Thanks so much for helping me today. I have forwarded many of your responses (if not all) to husband and he said, "These are so helpful." And, they are. So supportive, so loving, so kind. [/QUOTE]
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