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When we hear from difficult child months later
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 640892" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>"Less is more." Minimal engagement with difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Do not, do not, do not allow your sister to tell you what he writes on his FB. Tell her you are setting a boundary and that this topic is 100% off limits and that you don't want to be rude, but if she starts telling you anything about difficult child's posts, you will have to gently hang up your phone or leave the house. It is not something you ever want to discuss with her. Then do it. It works if you are firm. AND DO NOT READ HIS OTHER FB!!!!</p><p></p><p>You did great when he tried to snow you about his leg. He can't get money from you and your sister seems sympathetic so he is going to try to hit her up. Good answer. Don't allow him to do it because of you. If he finds her number on his own to get money, that's on him.</p><p></p><p>Continue your peaceful life and remember that he is a grown man, moving toward middle age and he can and will figure it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 640892, member: 1550"] "Less is more." Minimal engagement with difficult child. Do not, do not, do not allow your sister to tell you what he writes on his FB. Tell her you are setting a boundary and that this topic is 100% off limits and that you don't want to be rude, but if she starts telling you anything about difficult child's posts, you will have to gently hang up your phone or leave the house. It is not something you ever want to discuss with her. Then do it. It works if you are firm. AND DO NOT READ HIS OTHER FB!!!! You did great when he tried to snow you about his leg. He can't get money from you and your sister seems sympathetic so he is going to try to hit her up. Good answer. Don't allow him to do it because of you. If he finds her number on his own to get money, that's on him. Continue your peaceful life and remember that he is a grown man, moving toward middle age and he can and will figure it out. [/QUOTE]
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