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When we hear from difficult child months later
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 640949" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I have listened to some of the comments from others in meetings and I could tell that some were scratching their heads is disbelief (none of us lol) that we could actually distance ourselves from the antics of our difficult children.</p><p></p><p>I can only say that they are misinformed, hopefully they will never walk in our shoes, and I never reply. There's nothing to reply to. We love our difficult children deeply, we just realize that the way the relationship has turned is toxic. For all of us!</p><p></p><p>Mine is another that makes me feel used, once I stopped the flow of money he has no reason to contact me. And when I did finally learn to say no it became nasty quickly.</p><p></p><p>It still hurts, but you handled the situation very well. Maybe one day our difficult children will mature to a point where they realize they are responsible for their own happiness.</p><p>(((hugs and blessings)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 640949, member: 13558"] I have listened to some of the comments from others in meetings and I could tell that some were scratching their heads is disbelief (none of us lol) that we could actually distance ourselves from the antics of our difficult children. I can only say that they are misinformed, hopefully they will never walk in our shoes, and I never reply. There's nothing to reply to. We love our difficult children deeply, we just realize that the way the relationship has turned is toxic. For all of us! Mine is another that makes me feel used, once I stopped the flow of money he has no reason to contact me. And when I did finally learn to say no it became nasty quickly. It still hurts, but you handled the situation very well. Maybe one day our difficult children will mature to a point where they realize they are responsible for their own happiness. (((hugs and blessings))) [/QUOTE]
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