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When you just cant have a relationship with somebody
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 711872" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>In the family.</p><p></p><p>With out details, i tried and cant. The person just doesnt like how I am and constantly picks on how I talk or what I say and...lots of plain meanness. I used to think I was the problem....</p><p></p><p>I have come to like myself...lol. if somebody doesnt, thats fine and valid. Nobody likes everybody and I always have been at odds with my very small family so I thought it was me, although I never had this problem with anyone else. Now I know. Its not me. Perhaps it is just that we are toxic to one another. So it is us together. Like Superman and Kryptonite, we dont work.</p><p></p><p>This is the first time I have been thoughtful about it rather than sad.</p><p></p><p>I am going to stop trying. Its too hard. I hope this person gets the hint and stops contacting me. If not, I am not going to read the correspondence.</p><p></p><p>I am not used to drama. There is little in my family of choice. I love my boring life <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>These things used to make me feel like a bad person. I know Im a good person now. I am grateful to have come so far. I just think sometimes you cant beat a dead horse. I am not perfect and never will br. Oh well.</p><p></p><p>Anyone else have this issue with somebody they "should" be close to (in societys eyes?)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 711872, member: 1550"] In the family. With out details, i tried and cant. The person just doesnt like how I am and constantly picks on how I talk or what I say and...lots of plain meanness. I used to think I was the problem.... I have come to like myself...lol. if somebody doesnt, thats fine and valid. Nobody likes everybody and I always have been at odds with my very small family so I thought it was me, although I never had this problem with anyone else. Now I know. Its not me. Perhaps it is just that we are toxic to one another. So it is us together. Like Superman and Kryptonite, we dont work. This is the first time I have been thoughtful about it rather than sad. I am going to stop trying. Its too hard. I hope this person gets the hint and stops contacting me. If not, I am not going to read the correspondence. I am not used to drama. There is little in my family of choice. I love my boring life :) These things used to make me feel like a bad person. I know Im a good person now. I am grateful to have come so far. I just think sometimes you cant beat a dead horse. I am not perfect and never will br. Oh well. Anyone else have this issue with somebody they "should" be close to (in societys eyes?) [/QUOTE]
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