Malika
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Hello, board friends. Any comments/insights welcome...
I went to see J's teacher today. He says:
J only learns when he receives one to one attention. The rest of the time, when the others in his class (4 girls) are working by themselves, J is walking around his chair, touching things, amusing himself in other ways. His attention span is very short, says teacher - five minutes at most. He is learning to read, but at a much slower pace than his classmates. He does not seem to have dyslexic-type problems. He seemed good at maths at the beginning of the year but does not seem to understand groups of 10 and higher numbers, etc. The teacher says he just accepts that J is "like that" and leaves him to his own devices much of the time... The teacher says he could not say whether J would learn better if he were more interested in what he is learning. He showed me a picture that J had done. The exercise was to copy the work of an abstract painting that resembled the pieces of a puzzle - the other children had faithfully followed this instruction whereas J had just scribbled around the picture (in a way that was not unattractive) in a style quite unrelated to what he was "supposed" to be doing. The teacher repeated several times (though not nastily) that J does not "listen".
I face decisions.
1. Stay where we are and see if things somehow improve.
2. Take J out of school soon and go to Morocco where he could go to a small private school (I went to visit it when we were there at Christmas) based on the French programme. He could go into the lower class than the one he is at present and really work on the basics of reading. We then either stay in Morocco or come back here to the village where he go begin his current school year again. My fear is that if he is just left to his own devices he will fall further and further behind on the basics of reading.
3. Take a sideways leap into an alternative school in France, which would have to involve moving.
I feel this is a fundamental time and J is, according to the teacher, "wasting" most of his time in school. At the tender age of six... Will he ever fit into the conventional system? Is the structure in fact good for him, even if he does not seem to take advantage of it? If I can't answer these questions close up, maybe no-one else can from a distance but...
I went to see J's teacher today. He says:
J only learns when he receives one to one attention. The rest of the time, when the others in his class (4 girls) are working by themselves, J is walking around his chair, touching things, amusing himself in other ways. His attention span is very short, says teacher - five minutes at most. He is learning to read, but at a much slower pace than his classmates. He does not seem to have dyslexic-type problems. He seemed good at maths at the beginning of the year but does not seem to understand groups of 10 and higher numbers, etc. The teacher says he just accepts that J is "like that" and leaves him to his own devices much of the time... The teacher says he could not say whether J would learn better if he were more interested in what he is learning. He showed me a picture that J had done. The exercise was to copy the work of an abstract painting that resembled the pieces of a puzzle - the other children had faithfully followed this instruction whereas J had just scribbled around the picture (in a way that was not unattractive) in a style quite unrelated to what he was "supposed" to be doing. The teacher repeated several times (though not nastily) that J does not "listen".
I face decisions.
1. Stay where we are and see if things somehow improve.
2. Take J out of school soon and go to Morocco where he could go to a small private school (I went to visit it when we were there at Christmas) based on the French programme. He could go into the lower class than the one he is at present and really work on the basics of reading. We then either stay in Morocco or come back here to the village where he go begin his current school year again. My fear is that if he is just left to his own devices he will fall further and further behind on the basics of reading.
3. Take a sideways leap into an alternative school in France, which would have to involve moving.
I feel this is a fundamental time and J is, according to the teacher, "wasting" most of his time in school. At the tender age of six... Will he ever fit into the conventional system? Is the structure in fact good for him, even if he does not seem to take advantage of it? If I can't answer these questions close up, maybe no-one else can from a distance but...