that atleast one child in the family has to be a major PITA at any given time? Can't I live a life where things are going right with both kids at the same time? difficult child seems to be well on track and now Diva is a heartbreaking PITA. Diva has been working all summer to go to an online photography program. She finally told husband the cost ($18,000 per year) and all her hard work to get in is squashed. We can not afford that and refuse to get into financial ruins over a loan that large! She is giving a major diva attitude. "Since I can't go where I want than I am not going anywhere! And besides, I don't have time in the next month to enroll in any classes." SCREAM SCREAM SCREAM!!! She doesn't want to move away to a good college with a child development program - our community college has NOTHING to offer her. I have asked her to take the pre-requists this fall at the local college but she believes her commitment to babysit for less than $4 per hour takes precident over a college education! OMG, the lady will more then understand if you back out of that job to get an education! When you are 18 - 22 years old, education should be TOP priority. She loves children - her first goal was to get a job working with kids. She is awesome with them but she doesn't want to do the stupid college basic classes to get the degree she wants. Stubborn!!!!