Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Where is my place to stand? What to do now.
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 709598" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you mof.</p><p></p><p>We bought this second house for him to live in, at a time when I could not stand living with him. We did not envision at the time, that we would come to use the house, letting him stay there as a bargaining chip, which is what it has become in part. I seem to be using housing as my only power source. My bad. I am seeing that now.</p><p></p><p>All of this seems clear (Duh. Why did I not think of it? I get so in the weeds.)</p><p></p><p>In a sense my son does live with us, not in our house but in a place we own. But if he is paying rent, he deserves the autonomy that a renter would receive. No?</p><p>Yes.</p><p>I guess I need him to stay treatment compliant and see the doctor. I need him to pay rent. I need him to take care of where he is living. If he is using marijuana, let him find a way to use it legally. (Is this fair, if it means he is burdened with the extra cost of traveling to a place where there is a dispensary? This is something to consider. After all, while the mechanisms have not been put into place my state did vote to legalize marijuana.</p><p>Yes.</p><p>Yes. I love your goals, mof. I may steal them.</p><p></p><p>Thank you very much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 709598, member: 18958"] Thank you mof. We bought this second house for him to live in, at a time when I could not stand living with him. We did not envision at the time, that we would come to use the house, letting him stay there as a bargaining chip, which is what it has become in part. I seem to be using housing as my only power source. My bad. I am seeing that now. All of this seems clear (Duh. Why did I not think of it? I get so in the weeds.) In a sense my son does live with us, not in our house but in a place we own. But if he is paying rent, he deserves the autonomy that a renter would receive. No? Yes. I guess I need him to stay treatment compliant and see the doctor. I need him to pay rent. I need him to take care of where he is living. If he is using marijuana, let him find a way to use it legally. (Is this fair, if it means he is burdened with the extra cost of traveling to a place where there is a dispensary? This is something to consider. After all, while the mechanisms have not been put into place my state did vote to legalize marijuana. Yes. Yes. I love your goals, mof. I may steal them. Thank you very much. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Where is my place to stand? What to do now.
Top