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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 709633" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Very very generally...</p><p>I can see giving your son an extremely over the top easy rent to pay.</p><p>Something noticeably under valued. Big time. Something all his friends would say "OMG...that is a fabulous deal!"</p><p>See if he would buy into it and actually verbalize "Wow..that IS the deal of a life time" or something along those lines.</p><p>And if he doesn't abide by "the deal of a life time" I would ask him to leave.</p><p>I'm conflicted re: the marijuana simply because I recall you said he has a medical reason/and legal right to use marijuana. I don't know if there is some way to make sure the only marijuana he uses is that which he gets through legal channels. Maybe set a rule that he can only obtain marijuana legally and can only smoke it within the confines of his home. After all, a person probably shouldn't take their medicine in public. I don't know. I just don't know. Much much confusion with this one.</p><p>But, if you give him an extraordinary deal for rent, one that is above and beyond reasonable and he can't abide by that, I think it may indicate that he is not trying...not even a little.</p><p>This is just me, though.</p><p>It is good to read he has made some progress in various areas.</p><p>I hope you can continue to explore doing things you enjoy doing and simply do them.</p><p>This is an absolute shame...so very taxing to the mind and body.</p><p>PS Happy Birthday!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 709633, member: 4152"] Very very generally... I can see giving your son an extremely over the top easy rent to pay. Something noticeably under valued. Big time. Something all his friends would say "OMG...that is a fabulous deal!" See if he would buy into it and actually verbalize "Wow..that IS the deal of a life time" or something along those lines. And if he doesn't abide by "the deal of a life time" I would ask him to leave. I'm conflicted re: the marijuana simply because I recall you said he has a medical reason/and legal right to use marijuana. I don't know if there is some way to make sure the only marijuana he uses is that which he gets through legal channels. Maybe set a rule that he can only obtain marijuana legally and can only smoke it within the confines of his home. After all, a person probably shouldn't take their medicine in public. I don't know. I just don't know. Much much confusion with this one. But, if you give him an extraordinary deal for rent, one that is above and beyond reasonable and he can't abide by that, I think it may indicate that he is not trying...not even a little. This is just me, though. It is good to read he has made some progress in various areas. I hope you can continue to explore doing things you enjoy doing and simply do them. This is an absolute shame...so very taxing to the mind and body. PS Happy Birthday! [/QUOTE]
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