Had some crazy times in the past couple of weeks. On Sunday two weeks ago had to call police at 7:30am to have difficult child taken to hospital. He was having an aggressive fit over having to leave for church at 7:45. He escalated so quickly. DDD and I locked ourselves in our rooms while I made a non-911 call to the police. He was screaming in the background while I made the call. Police came quickly. difficult child went with them without incident. He was admitted for evaluation. There were three days of break from him as he stayed to be evaluated. The rest of the family was able to relax a bit with him gone. He behaved wonderfully for them. As we all knew he would. No new diagnosis. No medication. change. No surprise. He came home and is the same. A day later husband went to the doctor for an ear problem and came out with referrals for his mental health. He can't deal with difficult child and the rest of his own life. Recently was not rehired for a job, and is currently feeling like a failure. So he is my difficult child#2 right now. Really not much fun. I feel so bad for my ddd. She goes through it all with me. She is an amazing girl who needs a normal life!