...my son would be any different from other men. Oh, I don't know. Maybe because I raised him different. He has a girlfriend. Claims he's totally in love and doesn't want to lose her. He has a certain female friend that he has, at times, kept secret from his girlfriend. Swears up and down that they are just friends. But, he would lie to his girlfriend and to ME about it (I would call and he would say he was just "driving around" and he was visiting this friend) because he doesn't want his girlfriend to get "upset". She never would have gotten upset in the first place if he didn't LIE about it. Tonight, he's meeting this chick for something to eat. And he tried to lie to me about it. Told me where he was going, but said he was going by himself. Ha. I know him better than that. I told him if he wanted to break up with his girlfriend then he needed to grow the cajones to just do it. He said he didn't want to. I said that carrying on like this would lead to the end of their relationship. He went anyway. I'm so PO'd. I didn't raise my son to be a liar and to sneak around. I told him that if this girl was a such good friend she wouldn't do things that would potentially jeopardize his relationship with his girlfriend. Apparently, she has no cares about that, but then is 'afraid' that his girlfriend doesn't like her. Devon has created this problem by lying about it in the past. When someone habitually lies about the same thing, there is NO trust on that issue. I raised him better than this. I am so disappointed in him. No one deserves to be hurt that way. It's just wrong.