WEll today was fathers day and well we slept in cause we went to church last night and husband and I stayed up watching a movie until 4 this morning which is a big deal since over the 13 years we've been together he has watched 4(well now 5) and yesterday we had a good day for a change but gee today he was up to his old self. I am so tired of being beat over the head and treated bad because his kids don't call him for fathers day. Me and my kids invited him to dinner since easy child had a full day at the church and difficult child slept in and had to go to the 6 pm mass. Anyway, I've been trying to hug and kiss husband and just getting the brush off and when I asked him where he wanted to go to dinner he mumbled Chiles I guess. That is the closest to our house and I told him that it was his day and could go anywhere since we were just talking that we always go to the same place but he was acting like a child. We went to pick up difficult child to go to the restuarant and him and difficult child get in a fight and difficult child tells him he is acting like an a** and I tell difficult child that he can't talk to husband that way and it starts a big thing so we are driving home and husband says to me just go to Sonic it will be cheaper and I ignore him and go to Chiles. We sit down and when the waiter comes I order both of us a beer later when he comes back to the the table to take Our order I tell the waiter that Dad goes first it's his day and he tells the waiter I don't know and looks at me and says what am I having and I say I don't know and like a little kid he tells the waiter well she ordered my drink I thought she was going to order my food. Then husband starts being a jerk to the waiter. He threw a crayon at him. easy child and her boyfriend met us there and as soon as they left husband and difficult child get into another argument in public. come on --when does husband grow up. I tried to make it a nice day for him but he was a jerk to me all day. So now we are home and difficult child took medications and went to bed (thank GOD I didn't have to fight with him) and husband is in the bedroom sulking that HIS son didn't call him. I am tired of this behavior from husband because of his kids even though me and my kids are trying to do something nice for him, I feel like he jst kicks me in the face. Honestly am not sure that this is going to last too much longer. difficult child says he wants to live with husband if we split but husband doesn't want him now and if he is forced to stay with me it is just going to make things harder for me AGAIN. How SAD!!!!