my child has problems keeping her hands to herself. she is constantly getting in trouble for kissing, and touching or hitting other children at daycare in the crotch region. i realize she might be curious but she does it to see if she can hurt them. she has a very high tolerance for pain and rarely cries when spanked, or gets an "owie". im not sure if she does it to see what hurts others physically and in the specific area due to curiosity of sexuality. help, whats the deal??