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Will Kicking my addict son out of my home solve the problem ?
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<blockquote data-quote="Exhaustedmom" data-source="post: 620035" data-attributes="member: 17682"><p>With lots of courage and very hard heart finally I did it.</p><p>Today he came home directly from his night class,reason he don't have enough money in his pocket for party, until this Friday when his paycheque is due. I did not make any dinner for him.so when he come home he was hungry ask for food</p><p>While he was eating , I gather my courage and very politely I said that son we need to talk and about currently situation,do you have any plan of your future. And he said yes I am doing job and studying and after that I will do what ever I want I am 18 now. I will not follow your rule. And I said son you are working and now you are able to support your self you can do what ever you want but not in my home. </p><p>You have no idea what happened after that, it was very very frightening, the moment I said that not in my home he start yelling at me throwing the stuff on the floor breaking plates smashing doors calling me <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />, and so many bad words. I said stop or I will call the police and he like I will call the police and tell them that you people destroy my life. And he call the police him self and smash the phone on the wall. </p><p>I lock my daughters in the room so he won't hurt them. He was walking all around the house and yelling , swearing , bashing doors , that my neighbours woke up at the middle of night and they call 911. It was frightening, I was shivering . </p><p>I cannot believe that he is the one for I was crying and praying no matter what he did I was protecting him. I just start conversation about the idea of leaving and what he did. </p><p>Any how police came and he was acting like mental.</p><p>So he is gone!! </p><p>First it was very hard for me whole day I was thinking that how to start conversation with him about leaving. Should I have to fight or talk politely.</p><p>All day I was fighting with my heart. My heart says don't do it but my mind says yes this is it. </p><p>But it's just happened. He act like very danger person. </p><p>But now I feel relax, I don't want to think about this any more.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Exhaustedmom, post: 620035, member: 17682"] With lots of courage and very hard heart finally I did it. Today he came home directly from his night class,reason he don't have enough money in his pocket for party, until this Friday when his paycheque is due. I did not make any dinner for him.so when he come home he was hungry ask for food While he was eating , I gather my courage and very politely I said that son we need to talk and about currently situation,do you have any plan of your future. And he said yes I am doing job and studying and after that I will do what ever I want I am 18 now. I will not follow your rule. And I said son you are working and now you are able to support your self you can do what ever you want but not in my home. You have no idea what happened after that, it was very very frightening, the moment I said that not in my home he start yelling at me throwing the stuff on the floor breaking plates smashing doors calling me :censored2:, and so many bad words. I said stop or I will call the police and he like I will call the police and tell them that you people destroy my life. And he call the police him self and smash the phone on the wall. I lock my daughters in the room so he won't hurt them. He was walking all around the house and yelling , swearing , bashing doors , that my neighbours woke up at the middle of night and they call 911. It was frightening, I was shivering . I cannot believe that he is the one for I was crying and praying no matter what he did I was protecting him. I just start conversation about the idea of leaving and what he did. Any how police came and he was acting like mental. So he is gone!! First it was very hard for me whole day I was thinking that how to start conversation with him about leaving. Should I have to fight or talk politely. All day I was fighting with my heart. My heart says don't do it but my mind says yes this is it. But it's just happened. He act like very danger person. But now I feel relax, I don't want to think about this any more. [/QUOTE]
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