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Will Kicking my addict son out of my home solve the problem ?
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 620062" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Oh Exhausted... I feel for you you have been through the wringer. I so sympathize as I have been through similar things with my son. When my son was 18 he was like your son, thinking he could do whatever he wanted, flagrantly disobeying our very simple rules etc. I told him he had two weeks to clean up his act or he would need to leave and he threatened to bash my teeth in.... So I went to the police and had them come and make him leave. It was gut and heart wrenching. I know both the hurt and relief you are feeling. Gven how your son was acting I think the police needed to get involved.... and honestly they are so entitled they think the police are going to be on their side????</p><p></p><p>So your son is very entitled right now and he needs to learn the hard way, as many of our difficult children do. He has absolutely no right to treat you that way, he does not get to live life doing whatever he wants to do, obeying no rules. Society does not work that way and it is time he learns that.</p><p></p><p>You are probably in for some more gut wrenching times.....but that is not the end of the road.</p><p></p><p>We have been through a lot with my son (find my stories on this forum). However he is now 22 and in a long term rehab and doing ok. We do have a relationship and he is actually appreciative of the things we do do for him. My home is a peaceful place where I like to be because he does not live here!! </p><p></p><p>You have two younger daughters that you need to protect and so for them he needs to stay out of the house. I know it is hard sometimes to do what is right for us, and easier to do what is right for your younger children!!</p><p></p><p>I hope your husband realizes that he needs to support in all this and will be willing to talk now that your son is out of the house.</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 620062, member: 15801"] Oh Exhausted... I feel for you you have been through the wringer. I so sympathize as I have been through similar things with my son. When my son was 18 he was like your son, thinking he could do whatever he wanted, flagrantly disobeying our very simple rules etc. I told him he had two weeks to clean up his act or he would need to leave and he threatened to bash my teeth in.... So I went to the police and had them come and make him leave. It was gut and heart wrenching. I know both the hurt and relief you are feeling. Gven how your son was acting I think the police needed to get involved.... and honestly they are so entitled they think the police are going to be on their side???? So your son is very entitled right now and he needs to learn the hard way, as many of our difficult children do. He has absolutely no right to treat you that way, he does not get to live life doing whatever he wants to do, obeying no rules. Society does not work that way and it is time he learns that. You are probably in for some more gut wrenching times.....but that is not the end of the road. We have been through a lot with my son (find my stories on this forum). However he is now 22 and in a long term rehab and doing ok. We do have a relationship and he is actually appreciative of the things we do do for him. My home is a peaceful place where I like to be because he does not live here!! You have two younger daughters that you need to protect and so for them he needs to stay out of the house. I know it is hard sometimes to do what is right for us, and easier to do what is right for your younger children!! I hope your husband realizes that he needs to support in all this and will be willing to talk now that your son is out of the house. TL Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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