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<blockquote data-quote="NCGram" data-source="post: 726177" data-attributes="member: 22609"><p>Acacia, first of all, my heart hurts for you. 2nd, I'm right there with you as far as not seeing grandkids. My son and his first wife had 3. They lived with us most of the time due to son and wife had no grasp on finances. Finally they divorced and son won full custody of the 3 kids. During the time of divorce son met current girlfriend and they had a child. We helped them financially, even going into debt to make sure the grandkids and kids had what they needed. They lived in TN, about 3 hrs from us. Then they moved to NC about 10 minutes from us. Son's dad, my husband, called girlfriend out on some untruths she had told. girlfriend gets mad at us, son gets mad at us and the oldest grandson (age 8) is asked if he will live with his bio mom. girlfriend and 8 yr old didn't get along well, so of course he said yes. So, girlfriend, son, 2 other grands and new baby son had with girlfriend move to Boston where she is from. </p><p></p><p>Son and girlfriend have been caught in several lies and got called out on them. Long story short (I know, too late, haha) we have been cussed out, been told we are dead to them, we are to stay away from them etc. Did not get to see or talk with grandkids. Bio mom is mad at us because she was told we didn't want to have anything to do with oldest grandson, told by our own son! </p><p></p><p>This site has really helped in me realizing that: my son is a liar, his girlfriend is a liar, I wouldn't know the truth if it sat beside me, so I have decided to detach. I worry constantly about the babies, but, I can't control the actions of their parents. Hopefully when they are older the grandkids will come to us for our side of the story. There is nothing else I can do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="NCGram, post: 726177, member: 22609"] Acacia, first of all, my heart hurts for you. 2nd, I'm right there with you as far as not seeing grandkids. My son and his first wife had 3. They lived with us most of the time due to son and wife had no grasp on finances. Finally they divorced and son won full custody of the 3 kids. During the time of divorce son met current girlfriend and they had a child. We helped them financially, even going into debt to make sure the grandkids and kids had what they needed. They lived in TN, about 3 hrs from us. Then they moved to NC about 10 minutes from us. Son's dad, my husband, called girlfriend out on some untruths she had told. girlfriend gets mad at us, son gets mad at us and the oldest grandson (age 8) is asked if he will live with his bio mom. girlfriend and 8 yr old didn't get along well, so of course he said yes. So, girlfriend, son, 2 other grands and new baby son had with girlfriend move to Boston where she is from. Son and girlfriend have been caught in several lies and got called out on them. Long story short (I know, too late, haha) we have been cussed out, been told we are dead to them, we are to stay away from them etc. Did not get to see or talk with grandkids. Bio mom is mad at us because she was told we didn't want to have anything to do with oldest grandson, told by our own son! This site has really helped in me realizing that: my son is a liar, his girlfriend is a liar, I wouldn't know the truth if it sat beside me, so I have decided to detach. I worry constantly about the babies, but, I can't control the actions of their parents. Hopefully when they are older the grandkids will come to us for our side of the story. There is nothing else I can do. [/QUOTE]
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