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Work and Germany; Benedictines and Buddhists: Attitude
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 672901" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Another change for me, maybe just a little thing or maybe, something huge. </p><p></p><p>One of us wrote (on Watercooler) about feeling upset at what her kids were doing <em>from her own perspective.</em> There was no guilt in her posting, there were no questions or decisions to be kind and all the things I am forever posting about. One of the things she (sadandfrustrated) posted: "I don't need this crap."</p><p></p><p>It's like being able to stand where you are and look out and not take responsibility for what anyone else is doing. Not even to feel badly, to suffer, for the ruination of the thing you worked to achieve. Her phrase was an acknowledgment that she had done her part and more and someone was messing with the fruition of what she had worked as hard as she had to create this thing meant to bring them together and </p><p></p><p>she . does . not . need . this . crap.</p><p></p><p>I am fascinated by this.</p><p></p><p>It is mindboggling me.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>It could apply to everything in our lives.</p><p></p><p>No guilt.</p><p></p><p>No second guessing our motives or beating ourselves up for not having seen it coming.</p><p></p><p>"I don't need this crap."</p><p></p><p>I am enamored of this phrase.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 672901, member: 17461"] Another change for me, maybe just a little thing or maybe, something huge. One of us wrote (on Watercooler) about feeling upset at what her kids were doing [I]from her own perspective.[/I] There was no guilt in her posting, there were no questions or decisions to be kind and all the things I am forever posting about. One of the things she (sadandfrustrated) posted: "I don't need this crap." It's like being able to stand where you are and look out and not take responsibility for what anyone else is doing. Not even to feel badly, to suffer, for the ruination of the thing you worked to achieve. Her phrase was an acknowledgment that she had done her part and more and someone was messing with the fruition of what she had worked as hard as she had to create this thing meant to bring them together and she . does . not . need . this . crap. I am fascinated by this. It is mindboggling me. Cedar It could apply to everything in our lives. No guilt. No second guessing our motives or beating ourselves up for not having seen it coming. "I don't need this crap." I am enamored of this phrase. [/QUOTE]
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