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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 694557" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I will let Darkwing hopefully tell all of you if I am right or wrong. This is my impression after talking to my daughter.</p><p></p><p>While actively using, our adult kids are not thinking about what they put us through. They need the drug. It comes first, second,and third. We are only in their thoughts when they want money or shelter. To make their dysfunctional behavior easier. We take their behavior personally when it is about their disease.</p><p></p><p>After they quit and if in a good program...I like NA because it forces the person ti have introspection and make amends...then they realize what they put their loved ones through. But my daughter did not utilize any orogram and still apologized once clean. They have to get clean to get their empathy back.</p><p></p><p>Darkwing, please correct me where I am wrong. Thank you, friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 694557, member: 1550"] I will let Darkwing hopefully tell all of you if I am right or wrong. This is my impression after talking to my daughter. While actively using, our adult kids are not thinking about what they put us through. They need the drug. It comes first, second,and third. We are only in their thoughts when they want money or shelter. To make their dysfunctional behavior easier. We take their behavior personally when it is about their disease. After they quit and if in a good program...I like NA because it forces the person ti have introspection and make amends...then they realize what they put their loved ones through. But my daughter did not utilize any orogram and still apologized once clean. They have to get clean to get their empathy back. Darkwing, please correct me where I am wrong. Thank you, friend. [/QUOTE]
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