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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704557" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You paid off his house. Not sure why or if it helped but what a sacrifice from you to him.</p><p></p><p>He has no right to be anything to you but kind and grateful. In my own opinion, you have given him MORE than a hand up and he won't even take it because of bad memories. Too bad. He can go to therapy. Or not. But at 27 he had his own home. Wow. If he chooses not to live in it, for any reason, that is on him. He is not homeless and you have done more than enough.</p><p></p><p>Turn off his lying, baiting voice in your head, remember to see him as an adult rather than a cute little boy, and perhaps severely limiting any contact would help you.</p><p></p><p>Maddening. So sorry for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704557, member: 1550"] You paid off his house. Not sure why or if it helped but what a sacrifice from you to him. He has no right to be anything to you but kind and grateful. In my own opinion, you have given him MORE than a hand up and he won't even take it because of bad memories. Too bad. He can go to therapy. Or not. But at 27 he had his own home. Wow. If he chooses not to live in it, for any reason, that is on him. He is not homeless and you have done more than enough. Turn off his lying, baiting voice in your head, remember to see him as an adult rather than a cute little boy, and perhaps severely limiting any contact would help you. Maddening. So sorry for you. [/QUOTE]
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