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<blockquote data-quote="dekalbdaddy" data-source="post: 643001" data-attributes="member: 18652"><p>She and I have always been really close and not in the sick way that the counselors would like to believe. I'm not satisfied with the diagnosis. There are too many things that don't make sense. As far as I know she doesn't steal or shoplifting. She does really well in school although she doesn't have many friends and doesn't seem to care. She is kind and helpful toward my neighbors. She hates her siblings and has threatened to kill several of them and even hidden knives under their beds so dcfs says obviously she can't go home to her mom's house. I too am almost sixty. All of my seven children are from my ex-wife and me. At my house it will be just her and I and I'm pretty sure that she and I will be seeing the same counselor not to get info on her but to have some continuity of care. The counselors and I are discussing house rules for discharge and my difficult child understands that this is her only chance. She has never harmed herself or another person yet so hopefully we are catching this in time. I don't know. My twelve year old was just diagnosed with ODD. I'm more worried about him. Those idiots started him on medications when he was only six and now that he has built up a tolerance they keep upping the doses. I really believe that because he was started on those so early he really can't control himself because he has never learned. My ex and I had a really messy divorce eight years ago and are relationship has been very caustic but very recently we are working on putting our differences aside for the children. I was a really low bottom fourth generation drunk. I'm sober five years now but the divorce plus my drinking probably contributed a lot to everything. Plus the city bought up the whole block that my ex lived on so she and the children just moved a few weeks ago and the children are all taking that hard. Thank you all who replied to my post. I know that none of you can solve my problems but it's really nice to know that I'm not alone and that all of you care. I just texted my ex about this site so I hope that she comes and tries it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dekalbdaddy, post: 643001, member: 18652"] She and I have always been really close and not in the sick way that the counselors would like to believe. I'm not satisfied with the diagnosis. There are too many things that don't make sense. As far as I know she doesn't steal or shoplifting. She does really well in school although she doesn't have many friends and doesn't seem to care. She is kind and helpful toward my neighbors. She hates her siblings and has threatened to kill several of them and even hidden knives under their beds so dcfs says obviously she can't go home to her mom's house. I too am almost sixty. All of my seven children are from my ex-wife and me. At my house it will be just her and I and I'm pretty sure that she and I will be seeing the same counselor not to get info on her but to have some continuity of care. The counselors and I are discussing house rules for discharge and my difficult child understands that this is her only chance. She has never harmed herself or another person yet so hopefully we are catching this in time. I don't know. My twelve year old was just diagnosed with ODD. I'm more worried about him. Those idiots started him on medications when he was only six and now that he has built up a tolerance they keep upping the doses. I really believe that because he was started on those so early he really can't control himself because he has never learned. My ex and I had a really messy divorce eight years ago and are relationship has been very caustic but very recently we are working on putting our differences aside for the children. I was a really low bottom fourth generation drunk. I'm sober five years now but the divorce plus my drinking probably contributed a lot to everything. Plus the city bought up the whole block that my ex lived on so she and the children just moved a few weeks ago and the children are all taking that hard. Thank you all who replied to my post. I know that none of you can solve my problems but it's really nice to know that I'm not alone and that all of you care. I just texted my ex about this site so I hope that she comes and tries it out. [/QUOTE]
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