at our marriage counseling session, that I want to be loved, emotionally and physically, and I want our relationship to come first. If that cannot happen being there is a waste of time and money. Can I say that or should I wait it out? I thought all night about how much I would love to have someone who wanted to be with me. Thought of husband and how it use to be. Then thought that his father, who died many years ago was single. His two uncles and brother were also divorced. I don't want to waste my life waiting for husband to want me. I don't think that will happen at this point. So instead of going through all the motions and all the fighting at the counseling, can I just say..Stop. This is what I want and if this can't happen then I don't want to try. Dr. cancelled last weeks session because of snow. Wimp. We were going to drive there (20 miles). But they had more snow than us I guess. Anyway I just feel it is useless to put up this act of he said, she said, he did, she did....Either yes or no. Don't waste my time. Can I say that?