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<blockquote data-quote="jude-in-nj" data-source="post: 674703" data-attributes="member: 19508"><p>New Leaf, thank you for your kind and supportive words. I am sorry you have been dealing with your situation as long as you have, and that there are small children involved. Thankfully Difficult Child and girlfriend have not reproduced but I am scared to death that it will be his main goal when he gets home because knowing him it will create a "forever bond" between them UGHHHHH.... and she will never leave him. Yea right. He is so co-dependent on her, has threatened suicide if he can't be with her more times than I can remember.</p><p>I agree with the drama affecting the other kids. We are lucky that they are all good kids but it has definitely had an impact on them. Especially the youngest, as you said about your young one, he has grown up with the revolving door and drama. He has had friends over maybe a few times but I think he is afraid of what may happen in front of his friends. (I can't blame him.. I hesitate having people over because of this as well).</p><p>I hate to say it but the last few months with son in jail have been peaceful..other than the constant phone calls, but I can choose to ignore them! </p><p>I have no clue what our future holds... I should say I have no clue what HIS future holds. As long as I stand my ground and stay strong I know my future will be ok.. It may not include him but that's the way it may have to be.</p><p>Thank you all !!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jude-in-nj, post: 674703, member: 19508"] New Leaf, thank you for your kind and supportive words. I am sorry you have been dealing with your situation as long as you have, and that there are small children involved. Thankfully Difficult Child and girlfriend have not reproduced but I am scared to death that it will be his main goal when he gets home because knowing him it will create a "forever bond" between them UGHHHHH.... and she will never leave him. Yea right. He is so co-dependent on her, has threatened suicide if he can't be with her more times than I can remember. I agree with the drama affecting the other kids. We are lucky that they are all good kids but it has definitely had an impact on them. Especially the youngest, as you said about your young one, he has grown up with the revolving door and drama. He has had friends over maybe a few times but I think he is afraid of what may happen in front of his friends. (I can't blame him.. I hesitate having people over because of this as well). I hate to say it but the last few months with son in jail have been peaceful..other than the constant phone calls, but I can choose to ignore them! I have no clue what our future holds... I should say I have no clue what HIS future holds. As long as I stand my ground and stay strong I know my future will be ok.. It may not include him but that's the way it may have to be. Thank you all !! [/QUOTE]
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