difficult child's father is such a nit-wit. So, if anyone is in the mood to do something a little sneaky (but legal and not an invasion of privacy or anything), please PM me. He wouldn't even let me take a photo to give to difficult child and now since difficult child is incarcerated, supposedly DSS is going after him- I guess he hasn't gotten the word yet that he owes CS, too. LOL! I think he's on facebook. Actually, I'd just like a little help determining if this really is him- I'm 98% sure already though. Ok- never mind about doing me a favor- I figured out how to do it. Do you think I should print a photo out and give it to difficult child? He has never seen him or spoken to him.