I rec'd a call from wm over the weekend ~ he was feeling very sad because of the anniversary of husband's death. We talked a bit & then he "invited" me to his next therapy session (this coming Friday). The last time I attended (well over a year ago) I was verbally attacked by my son regarding every hurt (imagined & otherwise), every feeling of anger, his feelings of abandonment, now that kt is doing okay why can't he move home, etc, etc, etc? I had no warning this was to be confrontational & I walked out of the appointment. I've been feeling very fragile, both physically & emotionally. wm's therapist isn't being honest about the content of this appointment nor is his in home therapist who attends with wm. My psychiatrist & therapist want me to distance myself from kt & wm's antics (tho that's easier said than done). I'm not getting reassurances from either of wm's tdocs about the boundaries I would like to set up before this appointment. Would you attend? Why would you attend if you did?