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y daughter has abruptly cut me out of her life
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 673894" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am not sure she is borderline, although the cut offs are a trait. My sister has cut off at various times my brother, my grandmother, and myself and I'm sure she has strong traits, but we are not psychiatrists. About your daughter...she is not stable herself or that nice if she cuts off loving grandmothers from t heir grandchildren and the husband encourages her darker side. This is not your fault. Give her her space and try to continue to live a good, happy life. Don't beg or use more m oney to entice them. That in my opinion doesn't work well. I agree with Appl Cori. Play hard to get. Groveling gives mean people great satisfaction and they punish you even more.Act to them as if you are just fine, no matter how you feel inside. The object is to hurt you. Don't let them know they are.</p><p></p><p>I would not argue with the husband ever. If he thinks you are not "spiritual" enough, but too "materialistic" (but he TOOK your money, didn't he????) I think it's best, with difficult people, to nod and smile and say "I see" and just laugh about it later on in private. It is so silly considering how he allowed you to buy him material t hings, but you won't win an argument with an irrational person. Same with your daughter.</p><p></p><p>Wait it out and see what happens. Nothing has to be resolved today.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 673894, member: 1550"] I am not sure she is borderline, although the cut offs are a trait. My sister has cut off at various times my brother, my grandmother, and myself and I'm sure she has strong traits, but we are not psychiatrists. About your daughter...she is not stable herself or that nice if she cuts off loving grandmothers from t heir grandchildren and the husband encourages her darker side. This is not your fault. Give her her space and try to continue to live a good, happy life. Don't beg or use more m oney to entice them. That in my opinion doesn't work well. I agree with Appl Cori. Play hard to get. Groveling gives mean people great satisfaction and they punish you even more.Act to them as if you are just fine, no matter how you feel inside. The object is to hurt you. Don't let them know they are. I would not argue with the husband ever. If he thinks you are not "spiritual" enough, but too "materialistic" (but he TOOK your money, didn't he????) I think it's best, with difficult people, to nod and smile and say "I see" and just laugh about it later on in private. It is so silly considering how he allowed you to buy him material t hings, but you won't win an argument with an irrational person. Same with your daughter. Wait it out and see what happens. Nothing has to be resolved today. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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