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Yesterday was my toughest day
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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 76482" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>Hi Karen,</p><p>Yes, you're mourning- but a new life awaits you. You are used to worrying about his comfort, you've been doing it for so long ...There is nothing wrong with you, with time all this worrying and wondering about him will evaporate because your life will be filled with other things, other interests, and other people. Know that there will be some bad days, but you get through them knowing that there will be fewer and fewer of them. And you are taking care of yourself, going out and doing things you enjoy. There will be more of this in the future. In time you may even think of this as a positive thing.</p><p></p><p>Here's why I say that. At age 34 I was sick undergoing chemo. I had given my treasured possesions away, thinking I was going to die. After a year of this I was ok after all. My life now is 100% different. And yours will be too! I really enjoy every second of every day. I can honestly say, cancer was a gift at this point. I won't bore you with the details of all cancer has brought to my life, but I know in time, you will feel the same way. Have a good day Karen. ((((hugs)))-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 76482, member: 2668"] Hi Karen, Yes, you're mourning- but a new life awaits you. You are used to worrying about his comfort, you've been doing it for so long ...There is nothing wrong with you, with time all this worrying and wondering about him will evaporate because your life will be filled with other things, other interests, and other people. Know that there will be some bad days, but you get through them knowing that there will be fewer and fewer of them. And you are taking care of yourself, going out and doing things you enjoy. There will be more of this in the future. In time you may even think of this as a positive thing. Here's why I say that. At age 34 I was sick undergoing chemo. I had given my treasured possesions away, thinking I was going to die. After a year of this I was ok after all. My life now is 100% different. And yours will be too! I really enjoy every second of every day. I can honestly say, cancer was a gift at this point. I won't bore you with the details of all cancer has brought to my life, but I know in time, you will feel the same way. Have a good day Karen. ((((hugs)))-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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