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Yesterday was my toughest day
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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 76531" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Well husband just left a few minutes ago. He stopped over to drop off his work truck and pick up his other truck. He came in and we started talking, he looked like h e double hockey sticks. </p><p></p><p>He then proceded to fall apart and take complete responsibility for everything that has happened. He was not looking for my forgiveness or sympathy. That is how I knew he was compelteley sincere. He is going to call the counselor tomorrow and set himself up an appointment. He said he cannot believe he has done any of these things to me, that he has no idea what is wrong with him and that he needs serious help. He said he knows he destroyed the best thing he ever had in his life and now needs to figure out what he needs to do about it. </p><p></p><p>Everything he has been doing for the past month or so has hit him full force. I didn't give him any sympathy. I told him he does need serious help and that nobody else can fix him, he needs to fix himself. He again admitted that if I had ever done any of these things to him he knows he could never forgive or forget any of it and that what he has done is totally unacceptable and inexcusable. </p><p></p><p>It was really tough sitting there watching him cry hysterically and take full responsibility for everything, but I stayed very even and didn't show him any emotions. He asked for the number to the counselor and I just told him that I hope for his sake he does call her and go because whether or not it will make any difference in our marriage or not, he needs to figure out his life before he loses anything else. </p><p></p><p>What an emotional morning. I am going for a nice long walk with my friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 76531, member: 2442"] Well husband just left a few minutes ago. He stopped over to drop off his work truck and pick up his other truck. He came in and we started talking, he looked like h e double hockey sticks. He then proceded to fall apart and take complete responsibility for everything that has happened. He was not looking for my forgiveness or sympathy. That is how I knew he was compelteley sincere. He is going to call the counselor tomorrow and set himself up an appointment. He said he cannot believe he has done any of these things to me, that he has no idea what is wrong with him and that he needs serious help. He said he knows he destroyed the best thing he ever had in his life and now needs to figure out what he needs to do about it. Everything he has been doing for the past month or so has hit him full force. I didn't give him any sympathy. I told him he does need serious help and that nobody else can fix him, he needs to fix himself. He again admitted that if I had ever done any of these things to him he knows he could never forgive or forget any of it and that what he has done is totally unacceptable and inexcusable. It was really tough sitting there watching him cry hysterically and take full responsibility for everything, but I stayed very even and didn't show him any emotions. He asked for the number to the counselor and I just told him that I hope for his sake he does call her and go because whether or not it will make any difference in our marriage or not, he needs to figure out his life before he loses anything else. What an emotional morning. I am going for a nice long walk with my friend. [/QUOTE]
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