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Yesterday was my toughest day
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<blockquote data-quote="skeeter" data-source="post: 76576" data-attributes="member: 439"><p>I'm glad that your husband at least appears to be taking responsibility for his actions. My ex never has. His version of reality has me being the bad guy, and I had to bite my tongue for many years with my kids. They eventually began to suspect things and ask me questions, and I always prefixed the answers with "are you sure you want my side of the story, even if it doesn't agree with your father's?". I also waited until I felt they were old enough to hear things objectively - and after they had made comments such as "how did you stay married to him for so long" - based only on how he now treats them.</p><p></p><p>Please move forward with YOUR best intentions in mind, not his.</p><p></p><p>And don't share lawyers. Let him get his own - or he can not get one if that's his choice. You do what YOU need to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="skeeter, post: 76576, member: 439"] I'm glad that your husband at least appears to be taking responsibility for his actions. My ex never has. His version of reality has me being the bad guy, and I had to bite my tongue for many years with my kids. They eventually began to suspect things and ask me questions, and I always prefixed the answers with "are you sure you want my side of the story, even if it doesn't agree with your father's?". I also waited until I felt they were old enough to hear things objectively - and after they had made comments such as "how did you stay married to him for so long" - based only on how he now treats them. Please move forward with YOUR best intentions in mind, not his. And don't share lawyers. Let him get his own - or he can not get one if that's his choice. You do what YOU need to do. [/QUOTE]
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